Hiring A Companion For The First Time
Hello! Is it your first time reaching out to a companion? Let me give you some tips:
Contacting A Companion
Read the Whole Website
You’ve finally found the woman of your desires! Maybe you’ve followed her for a while or just been admiring her ad. Now, it’s time to meet.
First make sure to dive deep into her website to help understand the necessary requirements for meeting.
Write your email / Fill out the booking Form
Next, read over the booking form & fill it out throughly. Some companions have an email to send your questions / desires to directly. First impressions are important. It’s nice to know a little bit about yourself, but know we are generally no too interested in things like race and how you look. Better to let us know WHO you are!
Email example:
“ Hey Scarlet, my name is [Full Name], and I am interested in booking a [Length of Session] at [Incall / Outcall / FMTY]. I would like to meet you in [Desired City] on [Desired Dates — Choose a few options]. During our date I hope we could [Brief description of session, hard limits, etc], and [screening option of your choice].
Thank you! “
2. Before the Date
It’s almost time to meet! I know it may be tempting to send your companion many emails / texts as you are exciting & wanting to chat. But, it is best to keep the communication to a minimum. If you need questions answered prior to the date, this is fine! But, if we spent all day texting our wonderful clients there would be no time left in the day.
3. Time to Meet
It’s finally time! Make sure to always confirm your date the morning of. Don’t arrive to the Incall too early, & be discreet in hallways. Here are some tips for your first date:
Give the envelope/offering as soon as you arrive.
Most companions will ask that you shower upon arrival. Some will shower with you! Be sure to use soap & warm water.
Chatting, cuddling, & building tension is important. Don’t rush!
Don’t stress about becoming excited quickly. We can take time to relax & enjoy each other’s company before starting again.
For longer dates:
Often social time and/or meal time is required for longer dates. Bring some snacks or take your lady to her favourite spot.
Longer bookings are not a sex marathon. They are time to build your connection & intimacy with your provider.
Overnights require 7-8 hours beauty sleep.
4. The Date is Over
Many companions love a little “thank you note” about how you enjoyed your time together. If you just wish to have your date & go this is okay too!
If you participate is review boards please make sure to ask your companion before posting.
That’s it! I hope you enjoy your time with your favourite new lady.
— Scarlet Fawn